This segment examines how boundaries and limits can remove a lot of frustration around problems at home or in the workplace.
- [Instructor] Yeah, the final step is the limit, … and a lot of people think well the limit means I quit, … or the limit means you're fired. … And it doesn't mean that, … and if people read the book "Good Authority", … they'll get the nuance there is, … you know if you think about good leaders, … Penny was listening to this. … Take a moment to reflect on effective coaches, … mentors, parents, teachers, people in your life … who were there at a moment in your life … where something big changed for you, something important. … Not a minor, a major thing. … And if you think back to those situations, … in some of those moments, one of the tools … that they used was a limit. … They said this goes no further. … I can't support you behaving in this way even one more time. … And it was in that moment where we went whoa, … I have to change, I have to do something different. … This person who I respect, who I value, … who I love, who I know, even though I don't like … the way they said it, I know that they care about me, …
This course was created by Pete Mockaitis of How to Be Awesome at Your Job. We are pleased to offer this training in our library.